tairo dek men yah kard atmaniyantran
evan sanyam ka kard hai.
tairo riding ke dauran jab is karda
ka uday hota hai aur jis vyakti
ke liye uday hota hai yah batata hai
ki us vyakti ko apni bhavnaon
par kantrol hai. vah jvalnshil muddon
ko thande chitt se nibtana janta
hai jiska achcha parinam nikl
sakta hai.
jiska yah kard niklta hai vah
rishton men samrsta la sakta hai
jisse pichli katuta svayan hi
samapt ho jati hai. usmen shanti
v shukun ke sath kam karne ki
kala hoti hai. vah rishton ko thande
chitt se nibhata hai. yah kard batata
hai ki jis vyakti ka yah karda
pratinidhitva karta hai usmen ek
farishte jaise vyaktitva ki visheshtaen
hoti hain jo sadaiv sabka khyal
rakhta hai, sabki bhavnaon ki kadra
karta hai. aisa vyakti manviya gunon
se bharpur hota hai. sahridyta inmen
kut-kut kar bhari hoti hai.
aisa vyakti agar tichar hai to vah
apne shishyon ko apna sara gyan
bant dena chahta hai jisse unka
bhavishya ujjval bane. ye apne hridy
se inka achcha chahte hain, inke man
men koi chal kapat nahin rahta.
aisa vyakti agar kisi yunit ka
mukhiya hai to usko yuniyan ke
sabhi karmachari chahe vah kisi bhi
pad par kyon n hane, sabhi prasann rahte
hain kyonki sabhi ko sachcha margadarshana
milta hai. vah sabhi ke sath nyay
karta hai, kisi ke bhi sath anyay
nahin hone deta vah yunit ke sabhi
adhikari v karmachariyon ka priya aur
adarsh hota hai.
jiska yah kard niklta hai
agar vah koi gharelu stri hai to vah
parivar ke sabhi sadasyon ke sath
madhur sanbandh bana kar rakhti hai. kabhi
bhi, kisi bhi rishte men karvaht
nahin ane deti. kisi karan se
koi sanbandh bigrne lage to turant
hi sanbhal leti hai tatha kai bigrte
rishte v bigrte kamon ko rokkr
unmen samrsta le ati hai.
agar yah kard kisi aise vyakti ya
mahila ka niklta hai jo kisi
se partanaraship men bijnes karte hain
to unke kam men itni paradarshita
rahti hai ki vahan dhokhe ka koi
kam hi nahin. vah puri nishchalata
se apne katrtavya ka nirvah karte
hain aur bijnes ko age pragti ki
or le jate hain aur hamesha saflta
ki sirhiyan charhte hain. isse unke
rileshan apne bijnes partanar ke
sath sarvatha achche bane rahte hain aur
unka bijnes bhi unchaiyon ko
chuta hai.
agar ham do mitron ya saheliyon ko
len to unke sath bhi yahi sthiti
rahti hai. unmen se jiska yah karda
nikla ho vah apne mitra ya saheli
ke prati adhik vafadari rakhta hai
aur sachche dil se dusre ka bhala
chahta hai. vah samay ane par uske
mitra ke lie kuch bhi karne ke lie
taiyar rahta hai. n vah apne dhan
ki parvah karta hai n apne man va
sharir ki. uske liye vah kuch bhi
tyag karne ke liai taiyar rahta hai.
agar uparyukt kard ‘‘di temparensa’’
pati-patni men se kisi ek ka
niklta hai to jiska yah karda
nikle vah atyadhik vishvas ka
patra hai aur har ghari, har paristhiti
men apne pati ya patni ka sath
dena chahta hai aur dega. aisa
vyakti apne parivar men samrsta
bhar sakta hai tatha apne parivarik
jivan ko sukhi bana sakta hai.
aisi mahila apne sasural men bhi
sabse ghul-mil kar rahti hai tatha
sabhi rishton men yathochit samman va
pyar dekar rishton ki dor ko tutne
nahin deti varan pyar ki ganthon se
rishton ko aur majbut kar deti hai.
aisi bahu-beti jis ghar men ho vah
ghar svarg ban jata hai.