vivah ki charcha karte samay bhinna-bhinn pahluon, pakshon par vichar karna chahiye visheshtah gotra, jati-varn, kundli adi. hamare rishiyon ne hamen char varnon men pahchan di. un char varnon men bhinna-bhinn jati ke log hain. mukhyatah brahman ke vivah sanbandh tay karte samay char gotra, kshatriya ko tin gotra, vaishya ko 2 gotra tatha shudra ko svayan nij ka gotra talakar vivah ki paranpra ka nirvah karna chahie. rishi gotra ke alava 4 shasan talne ki paranpra hai. svayan, mata, dadi, nati. parantu aj samaj men vijatiya vivah, anya dharmon men vivah ho rahe hain. in mapdandon ko nibhane men mushkil a rahi hai. parantu in visham paristhitiyon men bhi brahman samaj men in paranpraon ka palan hota rahe iske liye nirantar prayasarat hain. aj ke is visham yug men bhautikta ki daud men daudte hue manav ko apne bare men puri tarah jan pane ka samay hi nahin hai. hamare rishiyon ne manushya ke jivan ke prarabdh v bhagya ko samjhne ka purn v pramanit shastra jyotish vigyan ke madhyam se jivan men ghatne vali ghatnaon ko kundli ke madhyam se janne ke liye kuch sutra diye hain. unmen mangli dosh aur ashtakut milan mukhya mane gaye hain. pratham, chaturth, saptam, ashtam aur dvadash bhav men mangal hone par mangli dosh mana jata hai. lagn v chandra kundli men inhin bhavon men mangal hone par manglik dosh mana jata hai. isi prakar shukra lagn se bhi iska vichar karna chahie. to siddhant yah hua ki chandra lagn aur shukra ko lagn men tinon ke siddhant ko dekhakar mangli ka vichar karna chahie. vivah ka mul uddeshya hai siddhant aur paranpra anusar varn, samaj, jati ki maryada ke anusar jivan ka nirvah karna. dusra siddhant hai ashtakut milan. mukhya rup se ath prakar ke vichar hain tara, vashya, yoni, gan, varn, grah maitri bhakut v nadi jismen mukhyatah brahman ke liye nadi dosh hota hai. var v kanya ki ek nadi hone par vivah nahin karna chahie. var evan kanya ka ek hi nakshatra ho kintu ve bhinna-bhinn charan men han tatha ek nakshatra bhinna-bhinn rashi men ho to nadi dosh nahin hota. nadi dosh hone par svasthya v ayu sanbandhi pareshani hoti hai. brahman ko nadi, kshatriya ko varn, vaishya ko gandosh v shudra ko yoni dosh lagta hai. agar apne gan men vivah ho to sanbandh uchch hota hai. dev v rakshas men vivad v kalah, manushya v rakshas men mrityutulya kasht hota hai. bhakut sanbandh achcha nahin ho to arthik tangi rahti hai. parantu rashish maitri hone par bhakut, gan, vashya, tara sabhi ke dosh ka nirvah hota hai. parantu vidvanon ki ray hai ki nadi dosh sabhi varnon ko talna chahie. in sabhi baton par vichar karne ke alava vivah ke liye vaishakh, jyeshth, ashadh, kartik, magh, falgun ko sahi evan upyogi mana gaya hai. deshachar ki pradhanta se sabhi bhagon men vivah hote hain. inmen bhi, nakshatra varjit, kal vyatipat dosh, dagdh tithi, kshay tithi, sankranti, grahan din, guru shukra ast, mrityuban, vedh tatha anya kuyog men vivah varjit hai. ismen visheshtah mrityuban men vivah nahin karna chahiye. chandra vichar vivah men chandrama svakshetri v mitra kshetri ho to kai doshon ka haran karta hai aur danpatya jivan ko sukhi banata hai. kanya rajasvala dosh vivah samay kanya masik dharm se ho to vivah purva (yunjani) nakh chotni ki ahuti dila kar vivah karne par dosh nahin lagta. ‘‘yunjanah prathman manstatyay savita kshiyah agni jyoti nirnay prathivya adhya bharat.’’ nirnay sindhu pratham 621 vishesh rup se anakshuti doshon ke nivaran ke liye vivah ke ek saptah purva, ya vivah ke din nadimukh shraddh karna chahie, isse kanya ko rajasvala dosh nahin lagta. jo vyakti kanya dan kare use hi isko karne ka adhikar hai. bhinna-bhinn doshon ki charcha ismen ki gayi hai lekin apne sthan v lokochar ke anusar palan karna chahie. aj ke is adhunik bhautik yug men safal vaivahik jivan ka pratishat kam hota ja raha hai. uske mul karan men hamare shastriya niyamon ki avhelna ke sath-sath dharm, jati viruddh vivah bhi ek bada karan hai.
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paravidya visheshank  June 2013

fyuchar samachar patrika ke paravidya visheshank men shani jayanti, vivah, vivah men vilanb ke karan v nivaran, kundli men panchmhapurush yog evan ratn chayan, tabadla ek jyotishiya vishleshan, shukra ki dasha ka fal, shani chandra ka vish yog, ungli aur ungliyon ke duri ka fal, dakshinavarti shankh, brihaspati ka priya kesar, dah sanskar-antim sanskar, parvej musharraf ke sitare gardish men, chand ne duboya taitenik ko, ank jyotish ke rahasya, vibhinn bhavon men mangal ka fal, svargiya jagdanba prasad ki jivan katha, mahotkat vinayak ki pauranik katha ke atirikt, kal sarp dosh se mukti ke lie lal kitab ke achuk upay, vastu prashnottari, yantra samiksha/mantra gyan, helth kaipsul, prakritik urja santulan, vivadit vastu, vishisht mahatva hai kashi ke kal bhairav ka tatha hastarekha dvara janmakundli nirman ki vidhiyon par vistrit rup se charcha ki gai hai.

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