bachchon ke vastavik mitra abhibhavk (0 views)

bachcha sabse adhik apni mata se sikhta hain. yah shiksha anaupcharik rup se hoti hain aur aupcharik rup se vah apne shikshak se sikhta hain. ek hi samay par anek jaghon se alag alag baten sikhne ke karan vah bhramit rahta hain. skul, ghar, mitra varg, samaj, sinema aur ghar se skul ke marg men use vibhinn ghatnaen aur baten sikhne ko milti hain. ye sabhi ghatnaen ek-dusre se bhinn hoti hain. ek sath itni bhinn baten sikhne ke karan vah bhramit hota hain ki vastav men sahi kya hain. vah samajh nahin ata aur ghatnaon ke jal men ulajh jata hain. unhen samajh men nahin ata hai ki unke lie sahi kya hai aur galat kya hain. bachchon ke prati hamara ravaiya sadaiv ek nirdeshak ka hota hain. ek mitra ka ravaiya nahin hota hain aur ham unhen sahi disha nirdesh nahin de pate hain. isilie vo apni baten hamse nahin bantte hain. aisa n hone ke karan mata-pita aur bachchon ke madhya ek divar khari ho jati hain. 12 sal ke bachche men apni mahattvakakshanen janm lene lagti hain. kuch sharirik badlav ane shuru hone lagte hain. is ayu men yadi bachchon ke mitra ghar se bahar kam aur ghar ke andar abhibhavak hi hon to bachcha sahi rhag se vikas karne lagta hain. yadi kisi barah sal ke bachche ke sath vartalap ya vichar bantne ka avasar prapt ho to ap janenge ki bachche ko apse ghulne milne men samay lagega parantu kuch samay ke bad vah apko apne mitra ke saman apse apni baten bantne lagega.

is ayu men bachche ko sahi galat ka abhas karana saral karya nahin hain. us mushkil karya ko jyotish ke sahyog se saral kiya ja sakta hain. bachche men prashn karne ke gun ka vikas karna chahie. aisa karne par bachche ko nai baten sikhne ke avasar prapt honge. tatha uske andar ki uljhne suljhne lagengi. prashn karne par bachche ko kabhi tokna nahin chahie. sahjta ke sath bachche ka prashn ka javab dena chahie.